Assalamu alaikum dear brothers ✨,
You’ve logged into the app, set your intention — now what? Your profile is your first impression. And in a halal marriage platform, it’s not about being flashy. It’s about being sincere.
This guide will help you write a profile that reflects your character, values, and readiness for marriage — with barakah.
It Starts with Intention
Before you type a single word, ask yourself: Why am I here?
If the answer is “for the sake of Allah ﷻ, to build a life with someone who helps me grow in deen,” then let that intention guide everything you write. Even a profile becomes ibadah when your niyyah is sincere.
"And whoever fears Allah — He will make for him a way out. And will provide for him from where he does not expect…"
[65:2–3]
Writing Your Introduction & Bio
Your "Intro Title" and "Bio Text" sections are where you show your character.
Don’t just say “I’m a good guy” — show it. Mention how your deen shapes your daily life. Share what seeking knowledge means to you. Talk about your goals for marriage beyond the surface.
What sisters want to see:
- You pray consistently (mention your salah level truthfully)
- You’re working on your character
- You take Islamic responsibilities seriously (e.g. leadership, provision, emotional strength)
- You know what kind of woman you're seeking — and why
Tip: Keep it concise, clear, and honest. Don’t overshare. Don’t try to impress. Be real.
Don’t forget: sisters want to know what life with you might be like. You don’t need to list your hobbies like it’s a CV — but share something that shows how you experience life. Are you the type to do sporty activities? Do you enjoy road trips, reading, or spending time with family? A glimpse of what excites you can help a sister picture a future with you — one that feels sincere, not boring.
Show Your Deen — Not Just Describe It
There’s a difference between “I’m religious” and “I pray all 5, try to wake for tahajjud, and avoid haram in private.”
Your salah level, beard status, seeking knowledge, and Islamic background fields aren’t just technical. They’re part of your identity.
"If someone with whose religion and character you are pleased comes to you [with a proposal], then marry [your daughter] to him."
[Sunan at-Tirmidhi 1084]
So show your deen — with humility.
"Looking For” Section: Be Purposeful
This isn’t a shopping list.
Don’t demand perfection. Don’t just say “practicing sister, wears hijab, loyal.” Explain what kind of woman you hope to grow with. Mention qualities that matter in the long term — like patience, gentleness, love of Qur’an, emotional maturity.
And remember: the best way to attract a good spouse is to be the kind of spouse they’re praying for.
Marital Views & Practical Info
Take time to fill out these with care:
- Marital Status: Be upfront.
- Polygamy: Be honest and respectful.
- Work After Marriage: Your views matter — but share them with adab.
- Living Arrangement: This helps sisters know what to expect.
- Children: If you have any or are open to them, say so clearly.
These aren’t minor details — they shape the life you’re asking someone to step into.
Country, City & Ethnicity
These help sisters filter for compatibility — not for shallow preferences, but for logistics and cultural familiarity. Keep them accurate.
Ethnicity doesn’t define you — but it can inform family expectations, lifestyle, and language. It’s okay to be specific. Just be respectful and open-minded.
Photos with Modesty & Dignity
Upload a clear, recent photo that reflects who you are — respectfully.
No filters. No gym selfies. Just a clean image that shows you're serious. Sisters and their guardians will take this into account — because marriage isn’t just a swipe. It’s a proposal.
"And tell the believing men to lower their gaze and guard their chastity…"
[24:30]
Your photo should match that energy.
Final Tip: This Isn’t About Perfection
Your profile is not a CV. It’s a reflection of your readiness for a sacred trust.
Be sincere. Be respectful. Fill out your profile fully. Not only does it build trust — it increases your chances of being seen by the right person.
And never forget: when you take a halal path, Allah ﷻ opens doors that no one else can.
May Allah ﷻ guide every brother to write with sincerity, find with patience, and marry with barakah. Ameen.
If you’re serious about marriage, your profile should reflect it. Let your words carry your intention — and let your actions match your words.