Assalamu alaikum dear sisters ✨,
Your marriage profile isn’t just a form — it’s a reflection of your sincerity, your values, and your trust in Allah ﷻ. Whether you’re here with the help of your wali, or still considering your options, this guide will help you write with intention and clarity — while staying true to your deen.
Remember: in a halal platform like ours, your words hold weight. And your profile could be the means through which Allah ﷻ brings you someone who helps complete half your deen.
Start with Sincerity
Before filling out a single section, pause and ask yourself: What is my intention?
Marriage is not about escaping loneliness or checking a box — it’s about finding a companion to grow with, toward Allah ﷻ. Let that be the foundation of how you introduce yourself.
"And your Lord says, ‘Call upon Me; I will respond to you.’"
[40:60]
Start this process with dua — and let your profile reflect the sincerity of your request.
Your Intro & Bio: Reflect Your Values
Your intro might be something warm, simple, sincere, and inviting. But your bio is where you can go deeper. It’s your chance to reflect not just facts, but who you are: in your deen, your personality, your lifestyle — and something personal to you.
Use this space to share your journey with Islam, your values, and how you live them day to day. What does your faith look like in practice? What are you striving for spiritually, emotionally, and in your future marriage? Let your words reflect the beauty of your character, and speak honestly about your goals and aspirations — not just where you are, but where you're hoping to grow.
What brothers want to see:
- Do you pray regularly? (mention your salah level truthfully)
- Are you actively learning your deen?
- What do you value most in a marriage?
- How do you approach kindness, communication, and patience?
Avoid lists and clichés. Be warm, honest, and clear.
Share Your Deen Clearly & Humbly
Your salah, hijab, seeking knowledge, and Islamic background say a lot — not to impress, but to inform.
You don’t need to be perfect. Just transparent.
If you’re still growing in certain areas, that’s okay. Mention it with humility and the intention to improve. Marriage isn’t about arriving at perfection — it’s about walking the path together.
"And whoever fears Allah — He will make for him a way out."
[65:2]
Let your profile show that taqwa, not trends, guides your life.
“Looking For” Section: Write With Purpose
This is where many sisters either write too little or too much. Keep it balanced.
Be clear about what you’re seeking — but write with adab. Mention qualities rooted in deen and character: someone who prays, guards their tongue, shows mercy, and wants a peaceful home.
Avoid long shopping lists or superficial traits. Instead, describe the kind of man you’d like to walk toward Jannah with.
"Good women are for good men…"
[24:26]
Be what you’re asking for — and trust that Allah ﷻ sees it.
About the Wali: A Sign of Respect
On this app, your wali plays an essential role — not as a barrier, but as a shield. His presence ensures your communication stays halal and purposeful from the start.
Fill out the guardian fields fully:
- Wali’s name, phone, email
- Confirm he is male and aware of your use of the app
This honors the Sunnah and protects your dignity.
"There is no marriage except with a wali."
[Sunan Abi Dawood 2085]
A righteous spouse will respect this.
Lifestyle & Practical Fields Matter
These sections aren’t “extras” — they help determine real-life compatibility.
- Marital Status: Be clear
- Work After Marriage: Share your views respectfully
- Children: Do you have them or hope for them?
You don’t need to explain everything — just be honest and thoughtful. You’re inviting someone into a life, not a fantasy.
Final Tip: A Complete Profile Reflects Readiness
Take your time. Review each section. Ask your wali or someone you trust to review it with you.
Marriage is serious — and your profile should reflect that. You don’t need to be perfect, just sincere, clear, and committed to doing things the right way.
May Allah ﷻ guide every sister to a spouse who values her for her deen, honors her as a partner, and walks with her in peace, mercy, and taqwa. Ameen.